Updated: Dec 17, 2020
Do you ever Feel like you're not good enough or feel like you can't do or be something because you are not like x y, and z?
I started this blog knowing it would be hard to get viewers, knowing that I'm not some Rich Instagram influencer, or that maybe no one would really care about this blog, and perhaps it's just going to go nowhere. I'm sure a lot of people think it's a big joke and a waste of time. I've doubted myself a lot. Like maybe this is a waste of time, perhaps I should quit while I'm ahead.
I have these doubts of, I'm not good enough, and I'm not rich enough. Or maybe that my life isn't that interesting. I don't live in a newer modern decorticated house. I don't have the latest car; I don't get to travel outside of the state that I live in (except to tx). I don't know the full steps to become a "real Instagram influencer" (not that, that's what I'm trying to do, just example)
If you think about it, nowadays you try to do something that you're passionate about. Still, you get so discouraged because you look at all these successful people on social media or people you live around and look at their life, and if you don't have what they have, you look at yourself and your passions and think can I do this? Am I cut out for this?
You get those feelings like you're just not good enough or what you have materialistically isn't sufficient or up to par.
But who says so? Who says you can't? Who says you have to be Rich or have the latest, newest things?
Isn't it about being real and genuine to who you are and what you bring to this world? We Can't all be the same? So why not share the differences that you have inside yourself or that you can bring to the world ?
There will always be doubters and haters.
Remember this one thing and it will help you not dwell on them, Because honestly they aren't going anywhere.
And that's why I started this blog. Some may doubt me; heck, I may doubt myself some days, some may think I'm a wannabe (haters). But who are they? Why let fear stop you from doing something that brings you joy and could bring others joy?
So say no to the doubters, even if it's your self-doubt. Say who cares and pursue those passions and dreams.
It can be something as simple as starting a blog or as challenging as creating your own business. Whatever it is, bring it to life and remember that it may take time, but don't give in to others' negative thoughts. Push through, pursue, and keep on.
Believe in yourself and what you bring to the table in life because if you don't, who will?
One last thing, always remember that you don't have to be perfect or have an ideal home, car, or life.
There was this saying that a lady I follow on Instagram said the other day, "perfect girl isn't real, and real girl isn't perfect" - @darylanndenner
That stuck with me and made me inspired. So hopefully, I can pass it along to you and help you feel just as inspired.